Cyra grew tired . Day in and day out. She was falling into a rut. She wanted to do something with her life. Her life did not revolve only in being domesticated . She was growing into a bitter frustration.
One morning she just left everything and took herself for coffee. She wanted to get away from the usual.
She impulsively joined a book reading group. Enjoyed herself thoroughly. They planned to do a poem reading session too.
She sat with her thoughts and coffee thinking of what she had envisaged of life.
Was she just getting into a rut. Had she forgotten herself?
Only taking care of others.
She realised finally . She had to think of where wanted too.
Mostly after a time we put ourselves into a timetable. From morning to night all planned. Spontaneity takes a backseat .
If you want to honour yourself . Learn to take out time for yourself.
Meet your friends over coffee or meals. Plan a fun shopping trip. Indulge in a hobby . You are more . You are just not a wife or a mother .
Your are “ You”!
What are you doing for the” You”.
We are so conditioned to put our priorities before us.
Are you a “ Priority”!
Have you put yourself on the top.
Sadly most of the time it will be a no.
Sometimes you just need to be out. Take yourself for a drive. Treat yourself to your favourite thing. But something you have been longing to. Feel good!
Dress up . Feel good factor goes a long way in keeping you happy. You need time away from the family too. Do not feel guilty about it.
You owe yourself that.
Cyra found hers. She was a much happier person after she realised it. She made excellent like minded friends. Once a week she dropped everything and gave time to herself.
Are you ready to do that 😊
