Saturday, January 2, 2021

People and their attitudes

 There are only two true emotions in the world . Two sides. The yin and yang! Either they love you with all your shortcomings and flaws and accept you wholeheartedly just as you are. There are others , no matter how good you are , can never see anything good in you. They will only list out various flaws and shortcomings of yours. Criticise you to no end . 

This is what it all boils down in the end . Now what you choose to focus on , remains entirely on you . Will you allow these kind of people to affect you for the rest of your life or will you focus on the ones who appreciate you and love you despite of all your flaws.

You might have 10 loving you and 2 criticising you . Where should your focus rest? You cannot make everyone love you and you cannot make anyone dislike you . It all stems from them . It has nothing to do with you .

It took me years of tears , sorrow and my own ritual of grief to understand this . Believe me! Once you understand this and does not let it affect you , you will always emerge a positive winner in the race of life.

I have learnt not to focus on it and honour it. I rather appreciate and honour the ones who love me selflessly . If you have few of those kind , loving souls , your journey will be smooth and fruitful.

At the end of the day , all has to be left behind in this transitional journey . 

Once down 6 feet , every relation anyway ceases . So is it worthwhile to bother about those negative souls .

Take your pick.

Stay blessed. Stay safe😊

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